Joy

Have you ever noticed how your mood can be instantly altered by the influence of a little kid? Hand a baby to an elderly woman whose husband is in the hospital diagnosed with a terminal illness and you will witness a transformation; that woman will leave strengthened ready to face what lies ahead even if only for a little while. The innocence or purity of a child who pulls you into their make-believe world allows you to abandon all worries about laundry, dishes, or whatever else plagues your mind. I think that this is the greatest gift of youth.
When do we lose this freedom? The ability to live life fully and to enjoy every moment by living in the moment. I love that my kids pull me back and make me stop and enjoy the now.
Recently I had the opportunity to witness them slowing life down for others. My husbands mother was visiting for a while. The boys not used to Grandma, nor having any understanding of what it means to be old, showed no mercy in their demands for the games they wanted her to play. At first Grandma was stand-offish not really too sure how to proceed, but eventually she was playing zapper dart games with the boys. It was great to see Grandma enjoying the boys for their energy, but even better that the boys will have that memory of her visit.
Prior to Grandma, we had both my sister and my husband's sister visit. Both Aunts played vigorously with the boys. The house was filled with giggles and the sounds of kids being chased. I have a strong suspicion that both Aunts went home and slept for a few days having expended about a years worth of energy.
My boys are rambunctious, energetic and love playing games that are physical. All in all typical boys. I am excited about our summer together. I am looking forward to the running and chasing, the bike rides, the playground climbing, chasing the surf, exploring of enchanted forests and not to mention the bonus weight loss that accompanies this much activity.
Sage will be there right in the middle of it all in a sling or carrier. She will get to experience and learn this is our family life from a young age. She will also continue to melt hearts, there is something magical about holding a young life in your arms. It is incredible to me the number of people who stop and greet Sage and those who desire to hold her. I am always inclined to share as I feel she is such a gift, but more so because I enjoy watching the joy it brings that person.
How lucky am I?